REFLECTIONS | RYAN RILEY
Title
What Ryan Riley taught me about turning grief into purpose.
The Story
Ryan Riley BEM is a British food writer, author and founder of Life Kitchen, the award-winning initiative offering free cookery classes for people living with cancer. Inspired by the loss of his mother, Ryan’s journey spans caring for family, travelling the world, moving to London with no plan, and building a business with his best friend Kim. Through fame, success, health struggles and personal loss, Ryan has remained guided by a powerful belief in finding the positive in life.
Opening
A little different to most of the guests, I knew some of Ryan’s story due to the fact that he has well know for what he does, or has done. What I didn’t know was how open and honest Ryan was going to be.
What Stayed With Me
Total honesty. Self deprecating along with a confidence to carry himself through life without a lack of fear, and approach to life I have not seen. I know Ryan has probably had a lot of push back, due to his fearless ambition, extrovert personality, but I absolutely loved his energy, and found his attitude infectious.
The Bigger Reflection
You come across certain people that you know may trigger both a positive and negative response. I know some of the negative comments have been relating to Ryan speaking his truth, about his celebrity connections, about his achievements. They are actual facts. And, if people took time to watch the full episode they will find Ryan mentions these things as “This is where I was, but this is where I am now”. Unashamed of failing, in a societal aspect, but one of a second chance, coming from a much better place than he was in the past.
A Line I Won’t Forget
"Naivety is Achievity"
The quote that Ryan invented to help others, with a word that doesn’t exist. This reflects the playfulness of Ryans approach to life. He seems to be fearless in his essence for life.
Closing Thought
Creating a positive mission, from a negative experience. Ryan has helped thousands of people following his mams terminal cancer. Why should this not be celebrated, and shout from the rooftops. I know Ryans mam would be proud. I felt proud of him, and I know deep down that Ryan is too.
